LOVE ISLAND- Emotional trauma or staged drama?🌞🍹

LOVE ISLAND- Emotional trauma or staged drama?🌞🍹

*WARNING: Will contain Love Island spoilers*

With over 500 Ofcom reports from the latest Love Island drama (For those unaware, Dani received a text of Jack’s ex arriving) it’s brought a lot of discussion around whether Love Island is really just using entertainment to mess with the contestants feelings and cause them unnecessary upset. The producers blatantly knew that Jack had barely interacted with his ex, especially as they sent Dani footage from around a day earlier. Jack had even been recorded telling Adam he loved Dani, so why send her the footage just to mess with her head?

Now this isn’t the first time that Love Island has received Ofcom complaints. They received complaints after Adam’s ‘apology’ to Rosie, with lots of people saying that the way he was acting was very similar to emotional abuse.

Now I’m not slating Love Island here, as I enjoy as much as the next person. I get excited for 9pm every evening so me and the boyfriend can sit and watch. However, I do often sit there and think ‘is this really fair?’. Especially when you consider the fact that a contestant from a previous year has just committed suicide, it does make you question how healthy this type of show is. I mean, they’re literally forcing relationships whilst also forcing the drama and heartbreak that sometimes doesn’t necessarily need to happen (i.e Dani and the video of Jack seeing his ex).

Previous contestants have also mentioned that they feel like the producers really don’t warn them enough of what the outcome will be, and that they haven’t been checked up on to make sure they are okay. The only time this has happened was after the death of Sophie Gradon. Which makes you wonder, do they know the emotional abuse they are leaving contestants with, or did the death make them suddenly realise they have to make sure they haven’t caused irreversible damage? The trolling and the abuse that they become subject to whilst in the villa and as soon as they leave can be harrowing. Imagine not being on the internet for 6 weeks and leaving to check your phone, only to find millions of streams of comments slating you, or how you acted, or how you look. This could lead anyone to a deep set of problems including depression and anxiety. And the show really needs to warn contestants beforehand of this outcome, and there also needs to be a strong level of support after.

Think of Niall who just left. There were rumours when he left that it was due to the comments about his ears. His. Bloody. Ears. How pathetic? A problem that someone has probably never noticed about themselves and then millions of strangers pick it out and suddenly it can throw you into a deep self loathing and worrying about your self and your self image.

So I’ve kind of tailed off and I painted my toenails and forgot my main point…But what is your opinion on Love Island? Do you think the drama and the upset is fake? Or do you think the way they are treated is just for entertainment and is over the top and cruel?

Lots of love x

(I’m trying to start blogging more I promise!)

My Top 3 Ultimate Liquid Lips 👄💄

My Top 3 Ultimate Liquid Lips 👄💄

In today’s world of make up popularity and competition with brands releasing items all the time, it’s hard to keep up on which products are actually worth your coin. In 2016, (which seems like a decade ago now) liquid lipsticks blew up a storm. Liquid lipsticks sudden had the popularity of the world. And when I think back, I think liquid lipsticks were the main reason that I got so involved into the love and adoration of make up.

I always watched Bunny on YouTube, (grav3yardgirl) and enjoyed her attitude to life and her excitement. At this point I was very early on into the YouTube community and didn’t watch a lot of bloggers, and I also had no interest in make up whatsoever. However I remember a video from Bunny that featured her swatching a whole range of liquid lipsticks (forgive me, I can’t remember the brand!) And I remember being so amazed, a lipstick that dries down and can stay on for hours?! A transfer proof lipstick? This is when I encountered beauty bay, and from here I purchased my first lipstick from Gerard Cosmetics.

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Gerard Cosmetics Hydra Matte Lipstick in ‘Skinny Dip’

Now I’m one of them complete lovers of make up, forever wishing I had the commitment and popularity to be an influencer and receive all the free make up. Oh, what a dream. Of course for that, you actually need to be fairly skilled at make up. And I’d call myself amateur at best.

Now as my love for make up grew, my real love stuck with liquid lipsticks. I felt like they were the true end to any make up look and were so easy for looking done all day. Now, I have over 30 liquid lipsticks in my make up drawers and I decided to discuss with you which ones are my favourite!

No. 1- Lime Crime Matte Velvetines

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Lime Crime Matte Velvetine in shade ‘Bleached’

When I first received my lime crime lipstick, I was still fairly new to make up and wasn’t aware of different consistencies in make up. Long story short, as I tried to swatch the colour on the back of my hand the tube fell over. No problem normally, right? Nope. The lime crime liquid lipsticks are unusually runny and I lost about 5 applications worth. (I have tiny lips)

However this isn’t a negative point against these, as the lime crime range are my absolute favourite lipstick to wear. They are that perfect lipstick that will last all day, unless you’re really putting it through it’s paces. My absolute favourite for feeling like nothing is on my lips whatsoever. The runny consistency makes them much more moisturising and comfortable when laying on the lips. They also give me no image of the butthole lip* and also no horrible shrunken wrinkles all over my lips! Fab!

No. 2 Kat Von D Everlasting Liquid Lipsticks

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Kat Von D Everlasting liquid lipstick in ‘Lolita II’

Kat Von D was one of them names I had heard of since I was a child, mainly being swayed away from her as she was seen as ‘bad’ being covered in tattoos which when I was young was almost a taboo. I found her absolutely stunning and her tattoos, as well as her TV show where she tattooed, completely mesmerising. When I saw the buzz on YouTube about her make up line, safe to say I was excited. But of course being in good old England I had to wait a little while until I could get my first trial of the make up line. Americans you have no idea how lucky you are when it comes to make up. There is so SO much I am dying to try but we can’t here! And customs can kill you.

Anyway. I remember getting the email that the range had finally launched in Debenhams. I jumped straight onto my phone to order myself something. Being still in college with a part time job, I couldn’t afford much. This was my first taste into high end make up. I purchased the ‘London’s calling’ limited edition set that included the Tattoo liner in ‘Trooper’ (Side note, the BEST eyeliner I have ever used and I have tried a lot. The pen is so thin and makes it so simple to create wings-and to keep going over them when you eff up). It also contained a Studded Kiss lipstick in the shade ‘Lolita’ and an Everlasting liquid lip in the shade ‘Double Dare’. Lolita was also a colour in the liquid lipstick which I managed to purchase before it got discontinued, and reproduced as ‘Lolita II’. At this time as the range was new, Debenhams was also posting this set out with all orders. So I had two of everything. Fab.

The Everlasting liquid lipsticks are gorgeous. The colour range is ever growing and they are all stunning. You can go for a subtle pink, or you can go for a bright gold or blue. The line represents Kat completely, as well as the absolutely stunning packaging with the black floral details around. Such a lovely looking cosmetics range that honestly if I had the money I would buy just for display as everything looks so pretty! Now if I don’t apply  a balm beforehand, these can have a tendency to wrinkle my lips out a little bit. But that’s my own fault if I have dry lips! I don’t believe the staying capacity is as long as some other lines, but it looks so beautiful applied that I can forgive that.

No. 3 Jeffree Star’s Velour Liquid Lipsticks

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Now I’m no stranger to the controversy surrounding J*, and I’d like to say now that I am in no way a fan. I can bare about half of one of his YouTube videos as I find his demeanour way too overwhelming and to be honest I don’t really like him as a person- Don’t give me hate, we all have opinions. But when his cosmetics line dropped and there was SO much drama surrounding it, it was hard not to notice and not to get curious. My first purchase was ‘Rose Matter’ in the liquid lips. This is a PSA to never trust the pictures that brands show you of shades. I was like ‘Ooh yeah, this is a nice subtle pink that’ll match my skin tone really nice’, and at that time £16 was an expensive price for a lipstick. Well, ‘Rose Matter’ is more of a very neon Barbie pink is the only way I can describe it. It would look beautiful on some skin tones, but me? Nah. Especially as at this point I was still fairly self conscious and I hated make up that drew attention to me. But for a laugh, have a look at the only time I actually worse this shade and it was for Halloween…FB_IMG_1509531920831

Yeah, the only time I felt this lipstick was suitable was when I was Daphne from Scooby Doo…

However, (I’m saying however a lot, I apologise) my next purchase was from the collaboration with Manny Mua. At this point, I hadn’t overly heard of Manny. I watch a few videos of his from time to time but he’s on the same kind of level as Jeffree where I just get a little irritated sometimes with the personality. But I have to say, when I have the confidence to wear it, ‘I’m Shook’ is my absolute favourite lipstick I have. Now it’s not my favourite ever, as I said above that that is lime crime, but it is my favourite shade and my favourite for how it performs. It’s a beautiful bright coppery red, and it is so opaque. In key with the name, I applied that lipstick and I was shook. The colour was so vibrant and applied beautifully as well as being so bright and eye catching, and with my tiny lips I usually hate reds but I love this.

Also shout out to the lovely scent that J* cosmetics lipsticks hold as they smell amazing.

*Honorable mention to the lip ammunitions from Jeffree also. I don’t like wearing actual solid lipsticks due to the transferring and the slip/longevity. However, I have the shade ‘Birthday Suit’ from the Summer collection and I can apply this and eat a full meal, and the lipstick is gone of course. And I don’t know if this is on purpose, but it’s almost a lip tint. I will have that pink colour on my lips ALL night and usually until the next day*

So that’s that summed up! My top 3 liquid lipsticks. Sorry if this was long and rambly, this whole blogging thing is still new to me. Please leave a like if you enjoyed reading, and please leave me a comment with your thoughts and feedback!

Lots of love x

*Shout out to Safiya Nygaard for creating ‘butthole’ lip where you apply a lipstick and you can still see the inner colour of your lips.